My first virtue is discipline, meaning to be well
behaved, follow the rules and to be respectful. I am picking this because I sometimes
tend to talk in class, when I’m not supposed to, to my friends. I whisper to my
friends and then I get told to stop talking. I don't know, but I just sometimes don’t
follow rules because I don’t think they are necessary. I respect teachers but not as
much. I listen and pay attention to teachers but I talk so I guess that would
be considered being disrespectful to my teachers. My plan In order to fix that
is to be more active in class so that the teachers know that I am not talking
in class. And also to follow rules that my parents, coaches, or teachers have
imposed in me.
The second virtue I chose is forgiveness, saying that
you stop yourself from being angry at a person for doing something that might’ve
got you upset and to be able to be forgiving to whoever it may be. The reason
for this virtue is because whenever I tend to be upset at someone I just don’t
say sorry. I kept being upset at them for a long time. Last year, my friend did
something really weird and I was really mad at him and I just couldn’t talk to
him for the rest of the school year. It literally took me a long time to
forgive him for what he’s done, but now we are friends again and he promised me
he wouldn’t do it ever again. Now I learned that to understand the person’s
action you have to understand their character and what they’re going through,
weather it has to with how society views that person or what that person’s life is
like and etc. therefore my plan is to keep what I said in mind and to put yourself
in their shoes in order to understand them and why they did what they did. And
be able to forgive them for what they did.
My third virtue is joyfulness. This virtue is basically
to be a person that is happy all the time. I can be happy most times but sometimes
I am just in a really bad mood and idk why. Like sometimes I can be in a very
bad mood that will prevent me from being happy. I want to be a happier person,
meaning that I would like to be happy more often than usual. Like everytime I get
home I seem upset in some way. It’s just very hard for me to be in a joyous
mood, especially when I have a lot of homework and stuff to do. My plan to grow
me into this virtue is for me to think of something happy and just let it take
over my mood. Like when I am frustrated and stressed, I should always think of
something to bring my mood up or just take a break from it and do something that
will make me less of an unhappy person.